You likely have heard it said, possibly by some very hip-looking dude, that “Christianity is not a religion, but a relationship.” It’s a very attractive notion. Religion sounds formal and cold, while relationship sounds warm and personal. It’s all in how you understand the words, I suppose. James speaks of “pure and undefiled religion.” True religion, that which is pure and undefiled, is good. False religion is pure evil. Likewise, relationship can be good, but we all know of bad relationships. Many relationships are as destructive as an airliner colliding with a skyscraper. Furthermore, as we will see, there are different kinds of good relationships. So let’s do away with the religion vs. relationship language, shall we?
Christianity is a religion; it’s a religion of relationship. The major failing (I think) of those who preach religion vs. relationship is, as Greg Gilbert writes, reducing sin to broken relationship. That confusion reflects a misunderstanding of the nature of the Christian relationship with God.
Relationship is an important category in the Bible. Human beings were made to live in fellowship with God. What we must remember, however, is that it was a specific kind of relationship in which they were to live—not the relationship between two equals, where law, judgment, and punishment are out of view, but the relationship between a King and his subjects.
Many Christians talk about sin as if it were merely a relational tiff between God and man, and what is needed is for us simply to apologize and accept God’s forgiveness. That image of sin as lovers’ quarrel, though, distorts the relationship in which we stand to God. In communicates that there is no broken law, no violated justice, no righteous wrath, no holy judgment— and therefore, ultimately, no need for a substitute to bear that judgment either.
The Bible’s teaching is that sin is indeed a breaking of relationship with God, but that broken relationship consists in a rejection of his kingly majesty. It’s not just adultery (though it is that); it is also rebellion. Not just betrayal, but also treason. If we reduce sin to a mere breaking of relationship, rather than understanding it as the traitorous rebellion of a beloved subject against his good and righteous King, we will never understand why the death of God’s Son was required to address it.—Greg Gilbert, What is the Gospel (Crossway, 2010), 51.
Relationship is an important category in the Bible. Human beings were 








2 Comments:
#1 || 10·07·16··10:29 || Jared Moore
David,
As I continue to grow in my Christian life, there are many things that need to be filtered through my overall understanding of the Scriptures. Although, I have never said that Christianity is about relationship, this is what I was taught growing up, so it was my default thinking. Since I have not exposited the book of James yet, I had not thought about the statement in light of James 1:27. I appreciate you writing this article. Continue the good work; for, I imagine that there are many like me, that have yet to filter all their thinking through a correct understanding of the Bible in its entirety.
In Christ,
Jared Moore
#2 || 10·07·16··10:40 || David
Thanks, Jared.
You should at least know you’re nor alone. You might be amazed at the amount of philosophical and theological garbage I’ve discarded over the last twenty years. I was raised with the Bible, but I was not taught to think biblically.
Comments on this post are closed. If you have a question or comment concerning this post, feel free to email us.